A Note to Men Who Contact Me
Salaam.
A simple ?Hi? or ?Hello? is welcome once, but please don?t make our conversation only ?Hi, Hello, how are you?? again and again. I am here for a serious purpose, so please read my profile carefully before messaging me.
I prefer a man who is direct and sincere about his intentions. Tell me why you are here, what kind of relationship you are looking for, and whether you are genuinely prepared for marriage and nikah. I am not here to play games or spend my time on endless small talk.
I am a woman who still wants love and companionship, but it must be with the right man?a man who can accept me as I am. We are not perfect, and I do not expect perfection. What I want is sincerity, understanding, respect, responsibility, and peace.
I am also looking for a man whom I am genuinely attracted to and whose presence is pleasing to me. Physical attraction matters, together with good character, maturity, intelligence, and compatibility. 😊
I have my personal preferences and values, including my preference for a man who is unvaccinated. I understand that everyone has their own choices and beliefs, and I simply ask that mine be respected.
I am already 50+, and at this stage of my life, I value my time and peace of mind. If a relationship will only bring constant problems, stress, or headaches, I would rather remain alone.
I am not looking for many men. I am looking for one man?the right man. I am not trying to replace or compare anyone with my late husband, but I was fortunate to experience a marriage with a man who was truly right for me. I understand that no human being is perfect and that life eventually separates us from those we love. What I hope for now is another sincere companionship with a man who will genuinely accept me and build a peaceful life with me.
So, please be sincere and direct. If you are seriously looking for a wife and are ready to take real steps toward marriage and nikah, tell me directly. If you are only looking for casual conversation, endless ?Hi, Hello,? or games, please understand that I may not respond.
I am not looking for many men. I only need one right man.
What I am looking for
☝️💚 I consider myself deeply blessed by Allah to have experienced a marriage with a truly principled and God-fearing man. I mention this not to compare anyone with my late husband, nor to expect another person to be exactly like him, but because that experience taught me the value of sincere character, responsibility, fidelity, sabr, and standing for what is right even when it is difficult. I believe a real man is not defined only by what he says, but by how he observes his obligations to Allah, how he treats people, how he carries responsibility, and whether he remains principled through both ease and hardship. For me, marriage is a lifetime amanah, and choosing the right person requires sincere guidance from Allah. I am therefore not looking for perfection or a replacement for anyone; I am looking for a man who sincerely strives to please Allah, fears doing what is wrong, stands for righteousness, and understands that the blessings of marriage come through mutual trust, mercy, responsibility, patience, and support. Insha Allah, the rest follows when two people sincerely place Allah first.
Insha Allah, I am seeking a genuine, practicing Muslim man?born Muslim or a sincere revert?who observes the Five Pillars of Islam and takes his faith seriously.
I am particularly attracted to a man who has a beautiful balance of iman, intelligence, education, values, character and personality. I admire highly educated and intellectually brilliant men who can express themselves clearly, communicate thoughtfully, and enjoy deep and meaningful conversations. For me, intellectual compatibility is very important.
Physical attraction matters too. I appreciate a handsome, well-presented man, but good looks alone are not enough. What attracts me most is the combination of faith, character, intelligence, maturity, communication and principles.
I hope to meet a man who reflects the qualities I admired in my late husband: pious, principled, trustworthy, responsible, courageous, compassionate, hardworking, humble, patient, forgiving and respectful toward women. A man who can deal kindly and wisely with people from all walks of life.
Most importantly, I want a husband who genuinely strives to do what is right and please Allah, even when nobody is watching. He should continue seeking beneficial knowledge, improving his character, controlling his desires, keeping his promises and treating marriage as an amanah from Allah.
I am also seeking an unvaccinated man, as this is an important personal preference for me.
For me, a lasting marriage requires faith, trust, honesty, loyalty, patience, understanding, forgiveness, good communication and mercy. I believe husband and wife should help each other become better Muslims and build a peaceful home together.
I am not looking for perfection. I am looking for a sincere man with principles, genuine faith and a good heart, who is serious enough to build a lifelong marriage through Allah's guidance.
If you believe we may be compatible, I would rather have a meaningful conversation than exchange endless greetings. Tell me about your faith, your principles, your understanding of marriage, and what role you believe a woman should have in your life apart from being your partner.
May Allah guide both of us to whatever is best and grant us a spouse who will be a source of sakinah, mercy and goodness. Ameen.
Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem. ☝️⚖️💚